I have noted that in my situation that just one small non abusive or positive interaction from someone or a victory however small ensures that I am healed. It actually brings me back to feeling grounded or back to my true self.
I feel that to deny the TI any victories or to validate the person at all in this world or in thier life is the best way to keep them isolated and continue the behavior modification/ thought reform.
This is due to how demoralizing the whole campaign is. Especially being made to feel you deserve this or its your fault and such.
Well it looks as if demoralization is a bit different than what I mean exactly:
this is worse. Its not that you do not want to fight, its that you become so brainwashed into believing internally that you are a prisoner..you CANT fight.
A victory seems to set one free from this psych prison.